The Good Dinosaur and some thoughts...

I'm not a movie critic.  I'm a Mom who happens to be a Christian so this review is from that perspective.  This the first time we have gone with all four kids to the movies and the first movie in the theatre that Luke (newly 3) and Caroline (newly adopted) have ever seen.  We went and saw The Good Dinosaur.  I had read no reviews and only knew from commercials that there was a green dinosaur and a toddler kid roaming around and getting into prehistoric trouble.

What I didn't know was that there was a movie short called Sanjay's Super Team that showed before the movie.  It was cute and entertaining.  The kid comes around to the Dad's point of view that the Hindu gods are awesome when he sees them as super heroes.

I could tell a few seats down our 7 year old knew something wasn't right when they started praying to the statues in the box.  But I'm sure our 5 year old boy would have thought these are 3 great new super heros to believe in with each their own color and power to defeat the evil forces that were attacking Sanjay. I write this so that parents can be aware and have thoughtful discussions with your children.

Our questions looked like the following: Did you notice them praying?  Who were they praying to? Why? Are they real or pretend gods? Do the statues really have power?  Are superheros (spiderman, hulk, superman) real?   For our family we have talked about the Christian God and other pretend gods like Baal and the Golden Calf before as well as the story of Daniel and praying to anyone besides the one true God so they had some basic understanding when we brought up the conversation of praying to statues/gods.

I'm not saying Christian kids shouldn't see this short film but that a good conversation afterwards would be encouraged.  It is an attractive, fun, introduction to another religion that a LOT of people on this earth believe to be truth.  For us and hopefully a lot of Christian parents it will be a great conversation starter with their kids that different people have different beliefs and when they grow up they will get to decide what they truly believe to be the TRUTH.  I would rather our kids have this conversation with us instead of with friends in college after hearing it from a professor or a kid down the hall.

The actual movie The Good Dinosaur we enjoyed.  And maybe because we were taken aback to see the short film first we had a deeper thought process with this movie than we otherwise would have.  It was a cute reversed movie where the dinosaurs were more human like and the human was more pet dog like.  But out of this film we were able to talk about several concepts.

It is hard to love the unlovable but what if you do?  (Spot showed love and kindness to Arlo despite Arlo's best attempts to be grumpy and mean back to him)

How do you forgive someone who really hurt you? (Arlo forgave Spot despite blaming him for his father's death)

Is it good to be alone? Why is it better to have a friend on your journey through life?  Even though you might be different than another you can share pain and difficulties and be encouraging to each other.

Taking care of the least of these... there is a scene that alludes to adoption.  That family is important and can help you "stand".

There is also a big point being made about "making your mark".  And although Arlo survived a long adventure overcoming fear and one would think that is how he "made his mark".   I would say he "made is mark" by forgiving (enemies and people who have hurt you), loving the unlovable, thinking of others first and sacrificing his life for that of his friend.  This is how you "make a mark" that can lead to a change in our lives and in the lives of others.

1095 Days Old

1095 days plus about 9 months is how long I loved this little guy.  Luke, Lukey, Lukester, Buddy, Little Bro, whatever you call him he is ours and so very loved.

Babyhood has come to an official end and as he will quickly tell you "Big Kid" years have started.  With that comes a huge dash of independence and "I do it".  My laid back kid suddenly has new bravery and is ready to tackle the world with or without us.

The crib is being put away in the attic (because I can't bare to get rid of it and admit that we are done with babes).  A new level of freedom has been found and exercised usually at 5:15ish in the morning.

Luke you have quite the personality! It is warm, caring, sweet, with a healthy dose of boy thrown in.  You are quick to protect your Mom with your superman abilities (snapping all the bad guys away).  You LOVE trains and cars.  Your new sister is quickly becoming your best friend (when Lydie-bug isn't around) and suckers are your candy of choice!

Nightly I've been praying for you that you will know the Jesus in your Bible stories this year and that the God who made you will give you bravery and help us be the best parents we can be to help you follow God on the great adventures he has planned for your life and that we will be brave enough to let you go.

Your smile lights up a room!  Kiss Kiss my big THREE year old!  Happy Birthday!

Pictures from the past:

Birthday Dreams Come True

This year our newly seven year old wanted more than anything to have horseback riding lessons for her birthday.  I thought this was a great idea and for years she will remember what she got as a gift because it is tied to a memory.  

Before her birthday I researched area stables around the Tulsa area and found one I liked KJM stables.  Lessons there start at age 7 so there must be a reason 7 is the magical horse year :)
KJM stables are located on Sheridan between 101st and 91st in South Tulsa.  We actually used to live in the neighborhood right behind the stables and I used to walk Savannah by in her stroller to see the horses through the gate.  It's amazing to me that she is now riding one of those horses! For two reasons really the first being that she is old enough (7 years goes by fast!) and the second is that we can afford it.  I look back on that time when every dollar was budgeted, Aldi's was our store and Walmart was a luxury but God has blessed us beyond our dreams and I want to give a shout out to Him of thanksgiving for provisions in our lives.

I'm sure we are a sight to see anytime we leave the house.  But neither Grant nor I wanted to miss the first horse back lesson so all 6 of us went.  
Thankfully the largest sandpit ever entertained the other three while our oldest daughter learned what it is like to really ride a horse.

The first thing they did was a little horse grooming and finding a helmet, saddle, and other horse related things out of the tack rooms.
I just LOVE her tiny smile in this picture!  Full of nervous excitement!
 I'm not really sure what I expected but the instructor was excellent and patient with Savannah.  She told her a few things and then off she was (inside the corral) on her own putting those things into action.  She learned to go around in a circle, change direction, stop and start, and even walk backwards!  All this and she never said a word (just a click) just soaking it all in.  
Side note little girl has hair long enough for pig tails!!!!  I'm not sure what to do with the bangs yet.
After an afternoon nap she woke up saying that was the best dream EVER!  So sweet.  She dreamed of Casper her horse and her awesome adventure.  She may have never said a word there but I knew it was a memory dreams are made of!

One of my favorite things...

Today I want to share one of my favorite things.  A podcast.  I love that I can listen while my hands are busy getting ready or making lunches.

My husband actually introduced me to this program called Focus on the Family a few years ago and I resisted.  To my credit when he told me about Focus on the Family he kept telling me about all the episodes that would help me to know how to be a better wife and about the husbands needs and how a wife can help with that.  ;)  Early in our marriage I was really, really independent and basically really prideful.  I think I am doing much better in those two areas but God still has a lot of work to do I'm sure if I was to ask him.

So back to this "program".  I finally gave in after a few months...still reluctantly.   The first episode I listened to wasn't about marriage.  I don't remember what it was about but I enjoyed it.  So I listened to another and another.  Finally, I fessed up to Grant that I had started listening to "his" program and I was enjoying it (seriously so prideful that it was hard to admit!).  It took me awhile before I listened to the marriage ones but I eventually did and God did his thing to my heart and melted the pride that was there so that I could actually listen to Grant when he brought the topic up again.

Now Focus on the Family Podcasts are apart of my everyday life.  Even the topics that I don't think will apply to me will have a little nugget of truth that I needed to hear.

So are you up for the challenge?  A 30 day challenge?  Just try it.  I'm sure other phones have this option.  But if you have an iPhone click your podcast button.  (It's purple on my phone)  Type in "Focus on the Family"  the picture icon looks like this:
Focus on the Family Podcast

I listen when I'm getting ready in the morning or when I'm at my desk or sometimes even in the car.

Just give it a try and see what God has to say to you.  Even if you don't totally believe in God and the Bible the program will have great things to inspire you in your relationships.

So pick up your phone and do it now.

Let me know if you take my 30 day challenge or if you already listen regularly.

By the way there are plenty of messages to help husbands in the marriage department to!  Or if your not married Tuesday's message was "Getting Organized for Christmas" and Wednesday was "Healing the Wounds of War"  so there really are messages for everyone.

Praise Jesus Hallelujah

Rejoice always
Pray without ceasing
In everything Give Thanks 
for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. 

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Grant came home early ...way too early one day in April.  It was awful.  He came home and said he was laid off.  The company he worked for ran out of work and they didn't need him.  

When those days happen it is hard to rejoice always and give thanks in everything...but it is easy to pray without ceasing.  Which is what we got busy doing.  We weren't super spiritual, I wish I could say that we gave thanks that night but we didn't.  We were honest in our prayers that this is scary, and that He would have to give us faith to trust Him through out this process as long as it took.  

Under obligation of law we had to admit a major financial change to our adoption agency and China.  Tell the truth no matter what is what we tell our kids all the time but now it was our time and with tears streaming down my face I wrote the hardest email I've ever had to write.  We were within days of hearing if China approved of us as parents for the girl we had chosen, prayed for, and loved from afar.  What if they said No?  Logically we couldn't see how they would say yes.  

"Trust God with all your heart and lean not on your own understandings in all your ways acknowledge Him and he will direct your paths." Proverbs 3:5-6

It was this verse I repeated throughout every day.  I even wore it around my neck.

This morning November 9, 2015 life looks different.  Grant is going to his first day of work as a full time employee.  And I am driving four kids to school.  Our life is full and God never left us and for that I praise Him. We did a lot of asking why us?  and definitely why now?  but He had a plan a better plan.  Grant's old company tanked and got sold.  The job market in oil and gas is now saturated.  We didn't know all that would happen...but God knew. He called us to a girl and when we thought we would loose her God made her our daughter.  

My prayer now is that next time a crisis comes I'll remember this marker in our life of trusting God and staying the course. I want to remember that God never abandoned us and saw us through.   I want to remember because he didn't promise life with Him will be easy and I'm wise enough to know more hardships will come our way unexpectantly again and next time I want to have enough faith to give thanks on day one of the trial and not just when the trial ends.  Although PRAISE JESUS for a JOB!!!!

Orphan Sunday

Orphan No More... here is a our girl in all her spunkiness!  
Adoption Fund Opportunity
On our journey to Caroline we found a wonderful church who has a heart for the least of these.  Council Road Baptist Church in OKC and they have a fund called the Karis Fund in which they help people with their adoption both internationally and locally.  They were a joy to work with and even though we have never met them in person they too are a part of Caroline's story.  People of God who have chosen to make a difference in a child's life for the Kingdom of God.

They have truly been a blessing to us.  This week they asked for a picture and a quote in 25 words or less that they could share with their congregation on Orphan Sunday.

Here is the picture they chose and the quote I gave.

Adoption Fund Opportunity

“We didn’t dream of adoption, but when God said US we said YES. God blesses obedience and what a beautiful blessing we’ve been given.” The Dawkins Family

7 Candles

My baby is seven!  How did that happen?!  This past weekend we had a pony party.  The only pony was on the cake but we promised a few horseback riding lessons in lieu of presents this year.  They have toys galore but I bet the lessons will bring memories that will last a lifetime and Christmas is around the corner.

All she wanted was some simple fall games, her family, and a hayride.  It was a beautiful crisp evening and all her dreams came true!

Fall Flower Crowns out of Mums
 I can't love this girl enough. She is so much like me it's scary. She teaches me so much about perseverance and faith. She holds onto hope and trusts the Lord for big things for those around her. She walks to the beat of her own drum and I admire that so much! Her creativity is consuming and her empathy for others is deep. My prayer is that we as her parents trust God with her life so that she may follow his footsteps not ours.

Trunk or Treat

Warning:  This is a Heavy Picture Post!  We had so much fun at the Trunk or Treat Halloween Night. It was a great community event!  People from all the surrounding neighborhoods showed up, lots of trunks were decorated and even a Life Flight Helicopter dropped in on the fun!  I think the best estimates were that 2,000 people showed up to enjoy the festivities!  Praise to God though...the rain ended and the perfect weather was in place for all to enjoy the night!

Here are my kiddos dressed in all their best costumes.  My favorite of the night though goes to Luke our 2 year old. He acted out the part of a super hero perfectly..snapping all the bad people he saw.  "Snap= hands together like a crocodile"  
Here are some of the fun trunks we visited.  I took a picture of almost all of them since when we were planning the event I couldn't find much variety on Pinterest.  So hopefully others can get an idea of what they can do next year.
Trunk or Treat Idea Jail with Real Cop

Trunk or Treat Idea Batman

Trunk or Treat Idea Monster Mouth

Candy Land

Trunk or Treat Idea Pirate Ship

Trunk or Treat Idea Firetruck

Trunk or Treat Idea Ninja Turtles

Trunk or Treat Idea Star Wars

Trunk or Treat Idea Camping

Trunk or Treat Idea Jail

Trunk or Treat Idea ScareCrows

Trunk or Treat Idea fishing

Trunk or Treat Idea McDonalds
One of my favorites!  They got french fry containers donated and put the candy inside!

Trunk or Treat Idea Basketball

Trunk or Treat Idea Golf Putt Putt

Trunk or Treat Idea Basketball

Trunk or Treat Idea Flamingo Fun

Trunk or Treat Idea Charlie Browns Great Pumpkin

Trunk or Treat Idea Candy Corn

Trunk or Treat Idea Chica Chica Boom Boom
Bethany Learning Center did Chica Chica Boom Boom

Trunk or Treat Idea Pac Man

Trunk or Treat Idea Mickey Mouse

Trunk or Treat Idea Sleepover Girls Night

Trunk or Treat Idea Ball Toss

Trunk or Treat Idea Duck Blind
Camo Duck Blind

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